feel like makin' love

I've decided that since I seldom talk about making love, today's post shall be a making love post.

So, what do you like about making love with your partner? Is it just the feeling of sex itself? The intimacy? The loving feeling of not having to say anything to your partner because she knows just what to do at exactly the right time? The comfortable feeling of making love to the one you love? Maybe it's just the satisfaction of your sex drive, of your being horny? Or maybe it is just the end product itself, your climax?

I think I know what it is I like about making love. Sometimes it changes, though. But most of the time its constant, and I'm glad its constant. Okay, so my sex drive isn't as high as my partner. Okay, so sometimes I'm so lazy and sleepy to make love. (But I still do, or else its death by shooting myself in the foot!) But I should think I do know what it is I like about making love.

I am the type who needs some foreplay before sex. I cannot go straight into sex, I don't know why. Some people are just of the type where its wham bam thank you mam. The hand goes straight into the undies, undies off, and its the deed itself, touching, inserting, what nots. I can't, I don't know why. I can't just go straight into the hand into undies kinda thing.

Perhaps I'm of a more romantic nature, or maybe I'm just me, but it has to start with the slow gentle kisses that slowly escalate into the passionate long tongue kisses, and then the kisses everywhere, from my lips down to every part of my body. It has to start from there, else I just won't feel it as much. There have only been one or two occasions (mostly when I'm tipsy), that it's the direct approach of wham bam thank you mam.

Thankfully enough, she knows just how I like it, and she never fails to do it. Always the foreplay first, before the deed itself. And of course, I know just how she likes it. (Forgive me for boasting, I just have to.)

She is someone who makes love based on her mood. At times its the slow, sexy, gentle making love. At times its the slightly rougher kind. At times its the role playing kind. But the ultimate deed always comes in a package (like what she says) for her. Three things that need to be done simultaneously, and fortunately enough, I can do all three.

So anyway, what I like about making love? I guess its the intimacy, and the sense of comfort I get from making love to the one who loves and knows me so well. The feeling of not having to say anything, and if I have to, not having to feel embarrassed or bad about it. The intimacy of me and her, in our world of love, making love, holding on to each other when we climax, having that someone we love to hold on to when we climax and after we do, the snuggling and cuddling and gentle kisses.

I can never separate love from sex. I wonder if you can? I can't, because well, I just don't see the point of making love if there isn't love. Maybe it's my priorities in life, I don't know. But I have never been a fan of separating love and sex. For me it's a package. A partnership. They come together -- love and sex.

After all, there's a reason why sex is also alternatively known as making love, yes?

What about you?